from me to you..

to the good: thank you doc for being extra nice. the appreciation and humility of doctors like you makes the toxicity at work worthwhile that it even makes us want to serve our patients better

to the bad: stop patronizing the food chain, haven’t you heard of equal footing? if not, now you know.. please read between the lines, thank you.

see? if you treat others with respect, then you will gain their utmost respect as well. Position at work doesnt make us more or less of a person, we even have the same code of conduct.. the rule is very basic, even easier than ABC. And oh, please dont be surprised if karma gets into you. Frankly, you act like a beast so expect others to respond like villagers with their torches and knives, ready to attack.

Know your Boundaries..

I was a shiftee so that makes me a year older from my groupmates.. Its not really some sort of age gaps coz 1 year doesnt matter but some of them still consider me as their “Kuya”..

We have our little differences but we were still able to get along with each other well.. They have their share of jokes and I have mine.. Often times I am “game” with their’s but there were also times that I just want to be alone.. I can be very loud or quiet sometimes. . I also have my own set of mood swings..

One of my group mates that I really get along well is into playing simple pranks and jokes.. And sometimes, I am one of his victims and we always end up laughing about it.. I also had my share of pranks with him.. Sometimes, when Im not in the mood, I just let it pass and act as if its not a big deal.. I always take into consideration that I am a year older and maybe I should understand them a bit more.. I always have patience with me.. But sometimes, the situation can be very overwhelming that the patience I have is not enough to cope with it..

I got fed up…

And silence suddenly consumed me.. I don’t want to talk to anybody..

He approached me and I bluntly said “Why are you talking to me??” The way I delivered my reply was a simple indication that I am mad with him.. After a few minutes, he approached me again and he apologized, but I can see that he’s not really sincere… I want to give him a punch in the face.. I went away..

A few minutes of tension within the group.. He approached me again and apologized..

I just had the guts to say what I want so say. I was very straight forward.. I literally hit my point blow by blow.. Just to let him understand that I have my limitations too..

And then after that, apology accepted..

No fist fight happened.. I am not like that..It ended up in a very diplomatic way.. And I’m just glad that I was able to stress my point..

F.U.S.S

Bakit ganyan ka? Minsan, may mga bagay na nagiging dahilan pa na gusto ko ng tumigil., Hindi ako makapaniwala, peste ka.

Waah, I need an Ice breaker.. Seryoso!!